The word “stick” gives us a clue about how we often approach our plans. It suggests we need to be glued to them - following every detail without deviation. We convince ourselves that the only way to get results is to dig deep, push through no matter how we feel, and never change course. When we question this rigid thinking, we see that it is not helpful or logical – it also discourages progress because it is a trap. A more helpful thought is: Keep the plan, but make it flexib

The first step towards emotional resilience is to have a realistic but hopeful view of the situation. This means thinking accurately about what you are facing instead of allowing yourself to become overwhelmed.